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As a 40-year-old Pinoy guy, living with aging parents can quietly wear you down in ways people don’t often talk about. On the outside, it looks like responsibility. On the inside, it can feel like slow, constant burnout.
I live with parents who are both ill. My father is a stroke survivor. My mother has diabetes. Their conditions don’t pause, don’t take weekends off, and don’t wait until it’s convenient. Every day comes with monitoring, reminders, appointments, worries, and that ever-present fear of “what if something happens today?”
