Quite recently, I found myself doing what I do best when I’m avoiding my own thoughts: scrolling. Somewhere between outfit videos and unsolicited life advice, a viral street interview popped up. Filmed in Europe. Casual. Harmless. The question was simple: Which country has the friendliest people? I barely registered it—until the Philippines came out on top. Thailand followed closely behind. I paused. I rewound. I watched it again. And as a Filipino, my first reaction wasn’t pride. It was confusion. Are we… really that friendly?
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ARTICLE | The Rise and Fall of Gay Malate - Manila's Queer Mecca
When we talk about PRIDE in the Philippines, we cannot ignore Malate - the cradle of gay safe space in Manila until its eventual demise in the early 2000s. The younger generation will never know how cool it was to spend Friday nights in this small alley of the Orosa-Nakpil intersection, where the entire gay population of Manila flocked.
Read more about my encounters in Che'Lu
https://www.pinoyinthecity.com/2009/10/last-night-i-lost-my-cellphone-at-chelu.html
Wednesday, November 29, 2023
TRAVEL | Top 10 Best Accommodations in White Beach, Puerto Galera for Gay Men
Let's be real – for gay men in the Philippines, Holy Week translates to one thing: an exhilarating weekend escape to Puerto Galera. This tropical paradise, often hailed as the Fire Island of the Filipinos, becomes the epicenter of excitement during this one special week. It's the time when gay men, diverse in shapes and sizes, converge to revel in a week-long celebration.
Yet, amidst the pulsating energy of festivities, securing the perfect accommodations along White Beach can be a challenge. Choosing the right venue is a make-or-break decision because, let's face it, three days on the island is no trivial affair. While you may be immersing yourself in the vibrant rhythm of Beyonce and Taylor Swift on the dance floor, the need for a comfortable retreat becomes paramount when your body craves a pause from the revelry. After all, even amidst the spirited partying and aquatic indulgence, a cozy room is the sanctuary you'll crave to rest and recharge.
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