THE QUIET CORNER | Existing But Not Living

The past few days, I’ve noticed something unsettling about myself. It feels like I’ve degenerated. Not in the dramatic, world-ending kind of way, but in the quiet, almost invisible sense where you suddenly realize that the spark you once carried has dimmed into something you can barely feel anymore. I used to look forward to people. Conversations. Even the things I once loved doing. Now, when I come home after a long day, all I want to do is collapse into bed. No music, no books, no hobbies, no laughter — just the dead weight of exhaustion pressing me into my mattress. Is this depression? Or is it some kind of soul crush — that strange emptiness where you’re not exactly broken, but you’re not alive either. Days roll into each other, and the future doesn’t even glimmer. It just looks… blank.

I work three jobs. Three. And yet my bank account looks like it belongs to someone who isn’t trying. Every deposit vanishes almost as quickly as it arrives, and there’s nothing left to hold onto at the end of the month. I keep running, but the finish line doesn’t exist. My wallet feels empty, and honestly — so does my soul. People tell me hard work pays off, but lately, it feels more like hard work just pays the bills. Nothing more. No security, no joy, no sense of accomplishment. Just another day survived.

Maybe that’s what’s bothering me most: I’m not living, I’m just existing. But here’s the thing — even in this emptiness, I’m still aware of it. And that awareness means something. It means I haven’t fully given up. It means there’s still a part of me that craves more, that refuses to believe life is just about working until you collapse.

I may feel bankrupt in spirit today, but tomorrow is still mine to claim. Change doesn’t have to come in one dramatic leap — sometimes it starts with one tiny act of rebellion against the emptiness. Taking a walk. Calling a friend. Writing a few words down, even if they don’t make sense. Choosing to do one thing that reminds me I’m human, not a machine.

The truth is, a bank account can be refilled — and so can a soul. Maybe slowly, maybe painfully, but definitely. And one day, I’ll look back at this season of survival and realize it wasn’t the end of me — it was the beginning of a new way of living.

I don’t just want to exist. I want to live. And I’m not giving up on that.

The Quiet Corner is a weekly Friday feature on this blog, offering reflections on the everyday musings that occupy the mind. It's a space where Filipinos in their early to late 30s can find relatable insights on navigating life’s balancing act—work, relationships, and all the little moments in between. Whether you're juggling responsibilities or just seeking a moment to breathe, The Quiet Corner is here to resonate with your journey.

ARTICLE | What We Talk About When We Talk About La Union

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TRAVEL | Puerto Galera 2025: Where Gays, Chaos, and Check-In Times Collide

Where do I even begin? This year’s Puerto Galera edition was, dare I say, a masterpiece in organized chaos. Unlike last year’s minimalist collection of 10 lost souls and a failed group coordinator (read: flop era), this time we leveled up with 20 fabulous attendees squeezed into 6 rooms. A glamorous logistical puzzle, but at least I was there to steer the glittery ship myself. It’s still a relatively “small” group—especially compared to those mega gay exoduses where 100 half-naked men descend upon an island like a RuPaul army. But as I always say: under 50 gays = manageable. Over 50 = start praying to Santa Santino. Puerto Galera Holy Week is our annual excuse to leave behind the sins of the city and commit brand new ones by the beach, complete with glitter, rum, and terrible decisions. My role? Fairy godmother of accommodations, land travel, and trying not to scream.

TRAVEL | The Great La Union Labor Day Fiasco

So, picture this: I’m sprawled on my couch, recovering from the financial bloodbath of back-to-back shindigs in Bangkok and Puerto Galera, when ping—a random message about a La Union trip for Labor Day pops up. My brain’s like, “Bruh, you’re broke, and this is soon.” But my heart’s screaming, “YOLO, it’s La Union, let’s surf this wave!” So, naturally, I yeet caution to the wind and say, “Screw it, we’re doing this.”

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Discovering La Union: The New Summer Hotspot for LaborUnion Festivities

TRAVEL | Discovering La Union: The New Summer Hotspot for LaborUnion Festivities

Fresh from the vibrant shores of Puerto Galera, our group was buzzing with excitement for our next adventure: La Union, the rising star of summer destinations in the Philippines. Known for its LaborUnion festivities, La Union has emerged as a top getaway spot, especially around May 1st, a national holiday that gives Filipinos the perfect excuse to escape the hustle of Manila for a few days of sun, sand, and celebration. But what makes La Union the go-to destination for summer revelry, especially after Boracay’s iconic Laboracay lost its sparkle? Let’s dive into why “Elyu,” as locals affectionately call it, is stealing the spotlight.

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TRAVEL | Puerto Galera 2025: Mga Realizations Sa Isla

So ayun na nga, mga papi - Puerto Galera 2025 happened. Akala ko pupunta lang tayo para mag-beach, mag-party, at mag-feeling cute. Pero as always, andun din yung mga life lessons na binigay nung isla. Let me break it down for y’all — baka makatulong sa future trip mo.

MUSIC | Lady Gaga's Iconic Return: A Look at Her Top 10 Most Recognized Songs

Lady Gaga’s latest single, Abracadabra, from her newly released album, has taken the world by storm. This electrifying track has been praised for bringing back Gaga’s signature sound—edgy, danceable, and undeniably catchy. Fans and critics alike have compared it to her earlier club anthems, solidifying its place as a true dance hit. To celebrate Lady Gaga’s triumphant return to her dance-pop roots, we’re taking a look at the top 10 most notably recognized songs from her legendary career. Spanning multiple albums and showcasing her versatility as an artist, these tracks have left a lasting impact on pop music and culture.

MOVIES | Top 10 Best Gay Movies with Happy Endings for Valentine’s Day

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LGBTQ+ cinema has long been a powerful medium for storytelling, capturing the nuances of love, struggle, joy, and identity. Whether you're in the mood for a heart-wrenching romance, a lighthearted comedy, or an intense drama, there's something for everyone. Here’s a curated list of gay films, grouped by mood and genre, with brief synopses to help you decide what to watch next.

TRAVEL | Songkran 2025: A Gay Man’s Ultimate Guide to the World’s Wettest and Wildest Festival

As the scorching Thai sun rises in April, it brings with it one of the most vibrant and joyous celebrations in the world: Songkran, the Thai New Year. This annual water festival, held from April 13th to 15th, is beloved for its playful water fights, cultural traditions, and endless parties. But if you're a gay man looking to dive headfirst into Songkran 2025, there's an extra layer of excitement to uncover.

From rainbow-soaked parties to sensual experiences and cultural explorations, Songkran 2025 is shaping up to be an unforgettable event. Here's everything you need to know to make the most of it.

MOVIES | The Iconic Filipino Actresses Who Played Darna

Darna, the iconic Filipino superheroine created by Mars Ravelo, has been a symbol of strength and justice in Philippine pop culture since her comic book debut in 1950. Over the decades, numerous talented Filipina actresses have brought Darna to life on both the big and small screens, each adding their unique flair to the character. Here’s a look at some of the remarkable women who have donned the red and gold costume:

LIFESTYLE | 10 Must-Have Essentials for the Modern Gay Man's Lifestyle

In today’s world, gay men are celebrated for their creativity, flair, and ability to curate lives filled with style, wellness, and adventure. To truly embody the best version of yourself, having the right essentials isn’t just a luxury – it’s a necessity. Here are 10 must-haves every gay man needs to enhance their lifestyle, all while staying true to individuality and fabulousness.

MOVIES | Unveiling Desire and Obsession: A Review of Luca Guadagnino's Queer

Luca Guadagnino, known for his evocative storytelling and atmospheric visuals, has taken on a daring adaptation of William S. Burroughs’s semi-autobiographical novel Queer. Starring Daniel Craig as William Lee and Drew Starkey as Eugene Allerton, the film explores themes of unrequited desire, self-discovery, and the human longing for connection. Set against the backdrop of 1950s Ecuador and infused with Guadagnino’s penchant for emotional ambiguity, the movie challenges its audience with its layered narrative and haunting performances.

FASHION | 16 Work Outfits That'll Make You Feel Like a Boss (And Look Like One Too!)

 

In the world of professional style, the right work outfits can completely transform not just how you look but how you feel. From chic blazers to tailored trousers, the possibilities are endless for creating office attire that exudes confidence and sophistication. This curated list showcases 16 stunning work outfits designed to make an impact while ensuring you stay comfortable throughout your busy day. Get ready to elevate your office wardrobe and strut into your workplace like the boss you are!

MOVIES | Metro Manila Film Festival 2005-2024 Best Picture Winners

The last 20 Best Picture winners of the Metro Manila Film Festival (MMFF) showcase the rich diversity and evolving landscape of Philippine cinema, reflecting a balance between artistic innovation and audience appeal. From historical epics like Bonifacio: Ang Unang Pangulo and Baler, to socially relevant dramas such as Big Night! and Mindanao, the MMFF has celebrated films that capture the Filipino spirit. Fantasy and adventure genres have also shone, as seen in Ang Panday and Resiklo, while heartfelt family stories like Rainbow’s Sunset and Walang Forever have touched the hearts of viewers. Documentaries like Sunday Beauty Queen and bold cinematic experiments like Deleter highlight the festival’s openness to unconventional storytelling. Collectively, these films represent the creative excellence and cultural depth of Philippine filmmaking over the years.

ON A DIFFERENT NOTE | The Multifaceted Nature of Truth: Lessons from Wicked and Kurosawa

After watching the Wicked movie, I found myself reflecting on the profound implications of perspective in storytelling. The film, much like Akira Kurosawa’s iconic approach to narrative in Rashomon, reminds us that truth is rarely absolute. It is shaped by who is telling the story and their motivations.

ARTICLE | Golden Globes 2025: Independent Films Shine, Surprising Wins Steal the Spotlight

The 82nd Annual Golden Globe Awards, held on January 5, 2025, at the Beverly Hilton Hotel in Los Angeles, showcased a diverse array of talent and storytelling, reflecting significant trends in the film industry. Comedian Nikki Glaser hosted the event, marking the first time she led the ceremony solo. (Photo: Reuters/Mario Anzuoni)

Major Winners and Notable Achievements

• Best Motion Picture – Drama: "The Brutalist"

• Best Motion Picture – Musical or Comedy: "Emilia Pérez"

• Best Director: Brady Corbet for "The Brutalist"

• Best Actor in a Motion Picture – Drama: Adrien Brody for "The Brutalist"

• Best Actress in a Motion Picture – Drama: Fernanda Torres for "I'm Still Here"

• Best Actor in a Motion Picture – Musical or Comedy: Sebastian Stan for "A Different Man"

• Best Actress in a Motion Picture – Musical or Comedy: Demi Moore for "The Substance"

• Best Supporting Actress: Zoe Saldaña for "Emilia Pérez"

• Best Supporting Actor: Kieran Culkin for "A Real Pain"

• Best Motion Picture – Non-English Language: "Emilia Pérez"

• Best Motion Picture – Animated: "Flow"

• Cinematic and Box Office Achievement: "Wicked"

SERIES | Squid Game 2: A Mirror to Our Chaotic Reality

Squid Game Season 2 continues its unflinching portrayal of societal issues, delving deeper into themes of economic disparity, social marginalization, and the human condition. The series remains a mirror reflecting the harsh realities of modern society, using its dystopian narrative to critique systemic inequalities and moral decay.